Home Building Contractors - Why Do My Clients Hate Me?

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Most Building Contractors I know get it wrong.STRATEGY: The client becomes an Owner Builder
They place their priorities on the project, ratherand the Builder becomes the Coach. This serves
than on their clients.to level the playing field, put more power in the
Why is that? As simple as it seems to say thathands of the client and the relationship has an
the customer comes first, in home building, it's not"even keel" feel.
an easy task. I can definitely empathize with thePROBLEM: There's often very little effective
builder. The more complicated and personal acommunication between the builder and the clients.
provided service is the greater the risk thatSTRATEGY: Preset communication schedules so
clients will become confused, emotional, andthat clients are "in the loop" at all times. The
eventually accusatory.clients are coached through the process, educated
A Home Builder or Baby Sitter?about the process, always aware of what's going
A complaint I often hear is that builders want toon.
be builders, not baby sitters. Builders want to doPROBLEM: Most of the time, clients feel like the
what they do best ... build! Isn't that the job afterwagged tail. When a client feels pushed around,
all? And by doing their best to build a beautifulthey're eventually going to push back.
home, won't that satisfy the customer? WhetherSTRATEGY: "Owner Builders" are involved. The
or not that makes sense, the fact is, it usuallyCoach gives them decisions and duties to
doesn't work.perform. The clients are motivated to save
The reason many builders think like this is theymoney and get more of what they want and see
learn their building craft and rarely do they learnthe value of their involvement. Involvement
the "people craft". And when people are treatedbreeds personal responsibility which breeds more
like they need to be baby sat, they're eventuallyrespect for the coach.
going to cry like babies ... and hate their "parents".Know, Like, and Trust
Use These Three Problems and AlternateBusiness more easily flows to those who people
Strategies to help you craft a better approach toknow, like and trust. By incorporating these
your business and turn "hate relationships" intostrategies, as a builder, you can earn the respect
love affairs.of your clients. You are literally placing the client
PROBLEM: Traditional General Contractingfirst! They will get to know and like you sooner
promotes an imbalance of power that lacksand trust builds quickly.
respect for the client. The contractor is perceived